DeepSummary
Lyss discusses the importance of trusting one's intuition and higher self in romantic relationships, especially when feeling stuck or unsure. She explains that ignoring intuition can manifest physical illness and stresses the importance of accepting a partner's decision if they do not want the same level of commitment. True love, according to Lyss, means giving someone the freedom to make their own choices without trying to control or manipulate them.
Lyss shares a recent traumatic experience that caused her to spontaneously book a trip to Bali. She believes this trip happened in divine timing when she was ready to heal and transform her life. Lyss emphasizes that true love is about acceptance, supporting each other's growth, and feeling uplifted rather than controlled or obsessed over.
Lyss acknowledges that while loved ones may sometimes see unhealthy relationship patterns before we do, ultimately the decision to leave has to come from within when the soul is ready. She encourages listeners struggling with a toxic situation to have patience with themselves and trust that they will leave when the timing is right.
Key Episodes Takeaways
- Trust your intuition, especially if you are a spiritually in-tune woman, as it will guide you in relationships.
- True love means giving someone the freedom to make their own choices without trying to control or manipulate them.
- If someone does not want the same level of commitment as you, accept their decision rather than trying to force it.
- Sometimes loved ones can see unhealthy relationship patterns before we can, but ultimately the decision to leave has to come from within.
- Don't judge yourself for staying in a toxic situation until you are truly ready to leave - it happens in divine timing.
- Traumatic experiences can act as catalysts for healing and transformation when the soul is ready.
- True love supports each other's growth and uplifts you, rather than obsessing over or trying to control the other person.
- Your body may physically manifest illness when ignoring your intuition about an unhealthy situation.
Top Episodes Quotes
- “True love is freedom. True love is acceptance of someone else and acceptance of yourself and understanding that if someone doesn't want to be with you, you cannot manipulate or force that.“ by Lyss
- “If you truly love them and you truly want what's best for them, you will set them free and trust that what's meant to be will be.“ by Lyss
- “The universe will align you with the right circumstances and people in divine timing if it's truly meant for you.“ by Lyss
- “If you are in a toxic situation right now, if you are in a really, you know, if you're in a relationship where, you know, the dynamic isn't ideal and you know that you need to leave, but you're not ready to, don't beat yourself up over that.“ by Lyss
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Episode Information
Date Yourself Instead
Lyss Boss
5/12/24
Hello from Bali! In this episode, I cover why trusting your intuition and trust in your higher self is always the best way to go when exploring a relationship that keeps you feeling stuck. I also dive into this concept of what true love really means to me and why excepting someone for who they are is the definition of love to me. I also explore the concept of freedom and how freedom ties into true, authentic love.
I love you, as always, if you feel called to send me a message on Instagram @lyss @dateyourselfinstead, I'm always here. x
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