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Lily Allen and Miquita Oliver discuss their reactions to the Met Gala, with Miquita finding the events and interactions between attendees lacking authenticity and connection. Miquita also shares her experiences attending the Met Gala in previous years, including the awkward timing of entertainment during the overturning of Roe v. Wade.
They talk about Miquita's plans for a solo trip to Europe during the summer when her daughters are with their father, and Lily expresses a desire to take a holiday alone as well. Lily mentions her recent visit to a garden center and her growing interest in gardening as a reflection of life's lessons like patience and trust.
The conversation turns to the difficulties of childbirth, with Lily and Miquita sharing their contrasting experiences. Lily expresses emotional reactions to seeing her pregnant friends, while Miquita recounts the traumatic aspects of her labor experiences. They also touch on the topic of deteriorating friendships and the importance of setting boundaries.
Key Episodes Takeaways
- The Met Gala event was perceived as lacking authenticity and genuine connection among attendees.
- Lily and Miquita have contrasting perspectives on pregnancy and the traumatic aspects of childbirth.
- Gardening is viewed as a metaphor for life, teaching lessons about patience, trust, and adaptability.
- Both Lily and Miquita express a desire for solo travel experiences during the upcoming summer.
- The dynamics of deteriorating friendships and the importance of setting boundaries are discussed.
- Lily and Miquita share a candid and honest rapport, often contrasting their viewpoints on various topics.
- The conversation covers a wide range of topics, from cultural events to personal experiences and relationships.
- Miquita provides insights into her experiences attending the Met Gala in previous years.
Top Episodes Quotes
- “It didn't feel like there was any truth in the way people were talking to each other and interacting with each other.“ by Miquita Oliver
- “But then also I think, like, you know, this person that I'm talking about, it's not like the doors are closed forever at the same time, in the same breath. I don't want that person to be, like, waiting there like a puppy dog for me to open the doors and welcome him back into my life with open arms.“ by Lily Allen
- “I've probably spent a few days in London, and then, you know, I do quite like a little solo trip to the continent, so I don't.“ by Lily Allen
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Miss Me?
BBC Sounds
5/9/24
Lily Allen and Miquita Oliver discuss the Met Gala, garden centres, pregnancy and their summer plans.
This episode contains very strong language and adult themes, as well as issues around childbirth. If you're affected by anything you hear in this episode you can find more support at bbc.co.uk/actionline.
Producer: Matt Thomas Technical Producer: Will Gibson Smith Production Coordinator: Hannah Bennett Executive Producers: Dino Sofos and Ellie Clifford Assistant Commissioner for BBC: Lorraine Okuefuna Commissioning Editor for BBC: Dylan Haskins
Miss Me? is a Persephonica production for BBC Sounds.