DeepSummary
The episode opens with Lily Allen, Miquita Oliver, and Billie Eilish introducing themselves and discussing the concept of their podcast, 'Listen, Bitch.' They delve into the theme of 'ghosts,' exploring topics such as ghosting in relationships, supernatural experiences, and sleep paralysis. Billie Eilish shares her personal experience of being ghosted, emphasizing her dislike for cowardly behavior.
The conversation transitions to discussing horror movies and the participants' preferences and fears regarding the supernatural genre. Lily Allen recounts a chilling experience from her childhood, while Billie Eilish expresses her fascination with possession themes in horror movies. The trio also touches on the concept of maintaining friendships, with Billie Eilish emotionally sharing her struggle to find genuine connections after becoming famous at a young age.
Towards the end, the hosts engage with listener questions, addressing topics like the shame associated with promiscuity, the impact of fame on personal relationships, and dealing with friend break-ups. The episode concludes with Billie Eilish proposing the theme of 'kink' for the next episode.
Key Episodes Takeaways
- Ghosting, the act of abruptly cutting off communication with someone, is a prevalent phenomenon in modern dating culture, often seen as a cowardly act.
- Supernatural experiences, such as encounters with ghosts or sleep paralysis, can be both terrifying and fascinating, eliciting a range of emotions and perspectives.
- Horror movies, particularly those featuring possession and the supernatural, can tap into deep-seated fears and fascinations.
- Maintaining friendships and genuine connections can be challenging, especially in the face of fame and success, but having a supportive circle is crucial for emotional well-being.
- Personal experiences, such as promiscuity or childhood trauma, can shape one's self-perception and carry societal stigma, necessitating self-acceptance and open discussions.
- The impact of fame at a young age can be isolating, making it difficult to relate to others and maintain meaningful relationships.
- Friend break-ups can be just as emotionally devastating as romantic breakups, highlighting the importance of nurturing and valuing close friendships.
- Discussing taboo or unconventional topics, such as 'kink,' in a safe and open environment can promote understanding and personal growth.
Top Episodes Quotes
- “I'm so afraid of something happening, but I want to see it at the same time.“ by Billie Eilish
- “I suddenly was famous, and I couldn't relate to anybody, and it was. It was really hard.“ by Billie Eilish
- “I have a crew. Now I have friends. I could literally cry about it. It's been, like, the greatest thing that's happened to me.“ by Billie Eilish
- “I have such a low sense of self worth and shame around how promiscuous I was in my twenties that if you know when you meet someone, you know when you meet someone and you're like, I recognize that person, my brain immediately goes, yeah, you probably slept with them.“ by Lily Allen
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Episode Information
Miss Me?
BBC Sounds
6/10/24
Billie Eilish joins Lily Allen and Miquita Oliver for LISTEN BITCH to answer your questions about GHOSTS, ghosting and all things spooky.
Next week, we want to hear your questions about KINK. Please send us a voice note on WhatsApp: 08000 30 40 90. Or, if you like, send us an email: missme@bbc.co.uk.
This episode contains very strong language and adult themes.
Credits: Producer: Flossie Barratt Technical Producer: Will Gibson Smith Production Coordinator: Hannah Bennett Executive Producers: Dino Sofos and Ellie Clifford Assistant Commissioner for BBC: Lorraine Okuefuna Commissioning Editor for BBC: Dylan Haskins Miss Me? is a Persephonica production for BBC Sounds