DeepSummary
In this episode, Kristin Cavallari interviews dating coach Jake Maddock, who explains the key elements needed to achieve a '10/10' perfect relationship - compatibility, chemistry, and an indefinable 'x-factor'. He advises being selective on dating apps, only going on 'high-value dates', and embracing masculine/feminine energy dynamics.
Maddock stresses the importance of men initiating dates, paying for everything, and being the pursuer, while women should focus on enhancing their feminine charm and allure. He discusses why women often sabotage relationships out of fear, tips for effective communication without arguing, and signs that it may be time to leave a relationship.
The conversation covers controversial topics like when to become intimate with a new partner, why successful women should downplay their achievements early on, and the ideal age gaps for long-term compatibility between partners with/without children from previous relationships.
Key Episodes Takeaways
- To find an ideal '10/10' relationship, look for a partner with compatibility, chemistry and an x-factor.
- Men should embrace traditional masculine roles of initiating dates, paying and being the pursuer.
- Women should enhance their feminine energy, charm and allure while allowing the man to take the lead.
- On dates, have an activity planned in addition to just dinner to make it 'high value'.
- Don't settle - identify and move on from partners who are not your ideal fit.
- For long-term compatibility, consider age gaps and life stages regarding having more children.
- Prioritize physical attraction, as it's unlikely to grow if not present early on.
- Maintain an ongoing courtship dynamic with flirting and romance, even in long-term relationships.
Top Episodes Quotes
- “Your wife is always right now, in saying that you got to take it. Take it with some common sense in there, okay? Prioritize her over everyone. That's what it means, okay?“ by Jake Maddock
- “If you go out with a guy who's 31, what's going to happen is he's going to want to have babies.“ by Jake Maddock
- “You want to cast a really wide net and then filter down from there. So you're looking for a very, very particular human being, a very unique person, someone who is just a perfect puzzle piece for you, so you're better off seeing where the most people are.“ by Jake Maddock
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Episode Information
Let's Be Honest with Kristin Cavallari
Dear Media
2/13/24
Join me and dating coach Jake Maddock as we discuss what you need to achieve a 10/10 relationship, whether attraction can grow or not, the rules for online dating, what to ask yourself after a first date, how to get high-value dates, masculine and feminine energy, why dating as a woman is much harder than a guy, doing wifey things before being engaged, and signs to leave a relationship.
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