DeepSummary
In this solo episode, Sabrina Zohar reflects on her past experiences of chasing validation from emotionally unavailable partners, which led her to the wrong relationships. She shares personal anecdotes of pursuing men who displayed inconsistent behavior and red flags, driven by an anxious attachment style and a need for external validation. Sabrina emphasizes the importance of self-awareness, breaking negative patterns, and focusing on self-love to attract healthier relationships.
Sabrina discusses the pitfalls of overlooking red flags, making excuses for poor treatment, and wasting time on incompatible partners. She stresses the significance of recognizing when interest is unreciprocated and setting boundaries accordingly. Sabrina underscores the value of introspection, challenging limiting beliefs, and embracing discomfort as crucial steps towards personal growth and fulfilling partnerships.
Sabrina shares her journey from being an 'anxious dater' who sought validation through chasing emotionally unavailable men to finding a secure, reciprocal relationship built on a strong foundation of vulnerability, transparency, and self-acceptance. She encourages listeners to prioritize their needs, trust their instincts, and stop chasing validation from the wrong sources.
Key Episodes Takeaways
- Chasing validation from emotionally unavailable partners leads to unhealthy relationships and personal distress.
- Self-awareness, breaking negative patterns, and focusing on self-love are crucial for attracting healthier partnerships.
- It's essential to recognize red flags, set boundaries, and walk away from situations that lack reciprocity.
- Embracing discomfort and introspection is necessary for personal growth and finding fulfilling relationships.
- Self-acceptance and confidence are foundational for building secure, reciprocal connections.
- Overlooking red flags and making excuses for poor treatment often results in wasted time and emotional pain.
- Maintaining a balanced perspective and cultivating self-belief are vital for manifesting positive outcomes.
- Seeking validation from external sources perpetuates insecurities and attracts incompatible partners.
Top Episodes Quotes
- “And like, even now, like, when people tell me, like, wow, you're so much calmer than when I knew you a few years ago, I'm like, man, what was I like?“ by Sabrina Zohar
- “And so it's so important to really start to address, like, what am I chasing? Am I chasing? If I just removed myself from this equation, would I ever hear from this person again? And if so, and it's a breadcrumb, which is another question someone asked. Like, if someone's breadcrumbing me, how do I handle that internally?“ by Sabrina Zohar
- “And the confidence that I have now, I did not have, the confidence I have now is because I accept myself so fucking unapologetically.“ by Sabrina Zohar
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Do The Work
5/31/24
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