DeepSummary
The podcast episode discusses red flags to watch out for in relationships and talking stages. The host begins by highlighting common innocuous red flags like someone constantly laying their phone face down or being unimpressed by compliments. They then delve into deeper red flags such as someone portraying all their exes as 'crazy,' being unappreciative of the time together, or being unable to handle intense emotions.
The host emphasizes being wary of someone who says they don't want anything serious or to move too fast, but then involves the listener in their life and social circle. They advise against tolerating such mixed signals which can lead to hurt. The host also stresses the importance of demanding exclusivity when wanting a committed relationship and expressing dissatisfaction if needs are not met.
Additionally, the host touches on red flags like the person being unresponsive via text, their reaction when labeling the relationship, and having to constantly hunt for reassurance that they like the listener. The overall message is to be aware of potential red flags, have open conversations, but be ready to walk away if boundaries are crossed or needs are not met.
Key Episodes Takeaways
- Be aware of innocuous red flags like someone constantly putting their phone face down or seeming unimpressed by everything.
- Major red flags include portraying all exes as 'crazy', being unappreciative of time together, and inability to handle intense emotions.
- If someone says they want to take things slow but involves you deeply in their life, it's a red flag of mixed signals.
- Demand exclusivity if wanting a committed relationship, and don't settle for anything less.
- Don't tolerate feeling undervalued or unappreciated - have open conversations but be ready to walk away.
- Pay attention to their reaction when trying to define the relationship as it reveals their level of commitment.
- Constantly seeking reassurance that they like you is a red flag that they are not sufficiently invested.
- Everyone has different boundaries, so focus on your needs being met rather than judging their actions alone.
Top Episodes Quotes
- βIf someone is scared of intensity, like, I talk very intense, sometimes I get very happy and I'm very loving. The love I have to give and the way that I care for someone is so fucking strong. Like, you feel it. Like, when I come at you with love, it's a lot like, it's a. It's a lot energetically to feel. But that's the same thing with my intensity and my negative emotions. They all come very strong.β by Speaker D
- βIf you're with someone who doesn't value their time like you value yours, you're gonna feel, like, fucked on. You're gonna feel like they're not really appreciative or, like, respectful of, like, your time together.β by Speaker D
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Episode Information
Aware & Aggravated
Leo Skepi
1/7/24
In this episode Leo gives you a whole new idea of things to look for when you're starting to date someone. These are universal red flags, and also a few explanations you need to hear about why you may be feeling a certain way & what to do next.
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