DeepSummary
The episode begins with Lisa Turkhurst and Joel Mudamali introducing the topic of self-deception and how it is the enemy of self-awareness. They discuss how self-deception often involves justification and rationalization, where people make excuses or find reasons to justify their actions even when they go against what is right or advised.
Joel Mudamali delves into the theological roots of self-deception, referring to the story of the Garden of Eden and the deception of Adam and Eve. He also discusses the concept of "hidden pride," where pride can present itself as the fruit of the Spirit, such as love, but is actually rooted in selfish motives or expectations.
Jim Kress provides practical advice on combating self-deception, emphasizing the importance of having a group of trusted individuals who can provide honest feedback and perspective. He suggests questions to ask oneself and others to identify areas of hidden pride or self-deception.
Key Episodes Takeaways
- Self-deception is a major obstacle to self-awareness, and it often involves justification, rationalization, and hidden pride.
- Having a strong understanding of the theological roots of self-deception, such as the story of the Garden of Eden, can provide insight into its nature and consequences.
- Seeking honest feedback from a trusted group of individuals, or a "personal board of directors," is a practical way to identify areas of self-deception and hidden pride.
- Recognizing signs of self-deception, such as confirmation bias, defense mechanisms, denial, and pretense, is crucial for cultivating self-awareness.
- Committing to facing reality, even when it is uncomfortable, is essential for mental and spiritual health and overcoming self-deception.
- Being aware of our repeated actions and patterns of behavior is key to avoiding the "slippery slope" of self-deception.
- Distinguishing between the fruit of the Spirit and hidden pride can help identify areas of self-deception, as pride can often masquerade as positive traits like love.
- Self-deception can become a habit or pattern if not addressed, making it crucial to actively work on self-awareness and seek feedback from others.
Top Episodes Quotes
- “The enemy of self awareness is self deception.“ by Lisa Turkhurst
- “Hidden pride is so dangerous because it's hidden inside of the chamber of the human heart, where there is no accountability, there's no mirror to be able to help identify.“ by Joel Mudamali
- “I've taught often about having a personal board of directors. That means you name six seats, three seats, however many you can, of people who will tell you the truth.“ by Jim Kress
- “We are what we repeatedly do. This is the slippery slope of self deception.“ by Lisa Turkhurst
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Therapy and Theology
Lysa TerKeurst
10/19/23
When we're blinded by self-deception, we can’t repent, heal, grow and get better. So how can we know how we're actually doing?
Learn from Lysa TerKeurst, Dr. Joel Muddamalle and Jim Cress in Episode 3 of this six-part series of Therapy & Theology titled "I Want To Be More Self-Aware." Each week, we'll hear conversations providing tools for how we can live as the most healthy versions of ourselves.
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