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In this episode, Chris Williamson interviews Macken Murphy, an evolutionary biologist at Oxford University. They discuss various factors that contribute to human attraction and what makes someone attractive according to scientific research. Some key topics covered include the role of symmetry, averageness of facial features, the importance of muscles, waist-to-hip ratio, tattoos, beards, eye color, height, and the distinction between stated and revealed preferences in attraction.
Murphy explains that averageness in facial features and symmetry are generally considered attractive qualities, as they may signal underlying health and genetic fitness. He also discusses the masculinity trade-off hypothesis, wherein women may prefer some degree of masculine traits but not to an extreme, as overly masculine men may be perceived as less suitable for long-term relationships or co-parenting.
The conversation explores the cultural and environmental factors that influence attraction preferences, such as the impact of resource scarcity on preferences for heavier body types in women. Murphy highlights the importance of considering both stated preferences (what people say they find attractive) and revealed preferences (what their actual choices and behavior reveal) in understanding human mating behavior.
Key Episodes Takeaways
- Averageness and symmetry in facial features are generally considered attractive qualities, as they may signal underlying health and genetic fitness.
- Women's preferences for male physical attractiveness tend to be more selective than men's preferences for female physical attractiveness, but women also place relatively less emphasis on looks compared to other factors.
- Cultural and environmental factors, such as resource scarcity, can influence attraction preferences, like a preference for heavier body types in women in certain societies.
- It is important to consider both stated preferences (what people say they find attractive) and revealed preferences (what their actual choices and behavior reveal) in understanding human mating behavior.
- The masculinity trade-off hypothesis suggests that women may prefer some degree of masculine traits in men, but not to an extreme, as overly masculine men may be perceived as less suitable for long-term relationships or co-parenting.
- Physical attractiveness tends to be more important in initial mate selection, but its importance may diminish over time as individuals have the opportunity to assess each other's personalities and other qualities.
- Evolutionary psychology focuses on understanding the shared psychological traits and preferences across humanity, while other disciplines may emphasize differences between cultures or individuals.
- Factors like height, muscularity, tattoos, and body shape play significant roles in attractiveness judgments, but their importance and interpretation can vary across cultures and environmental contexts.
Top Episodes Quotes
- “If you superimpose a set of faces, the face that results from it will be more attractive than any individual in that set.“ by Macken Murphy
- “If a couple knew each other for nine months or more before they started dating, each partner's physical attractiveness does not predict the others, which is a strong signal that attractiveness, physical attractiveness was not a huge factor in their decision to date each other.“ by Macken Murphy
- “If you really want to understand human mating, you don't want to say something as blunt as watch what they do, not what they say. Right. Even though for the most part, I am more interested in what people do than what they say. I think that if you really want to understand human mating behavior, you want to take a step back, relax, and say, okay, what do people want? What do they end up doing? And what's the most coherent explanation I can build based on the combination of those?“ by Macken Murphy
- “While cultural anthropology, and to an extent other disciplines, emphasize what makes us different, evolutionary psychology emphasizes what makes us all the same.“ by Macken Murphy
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Modern Wisdom
Chris Williamson
2/29/24
Macken Murphy is an evolutionary biologist at Oxford University, a writer and a podcaster.
No one has ever said they want to be less attractive. But what does attractive actually mean? What do humans like to look at in other humans, and why? Thankfully science has some insights to help you understand why you like what you like.
Expect to learn the role of symmetry in attraction, why the most average faces are actually the most attractive ones, how important muscles, waist-to-hip ratio, tattoos, beards, eye colour, height and voice are, how to work out what is a stated and what is a revealed preference and much more...
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